Yeah, that's what we need - even more pressure to be perfect. Perfect kids, perfect house...now perfect body? Now we're going to start idolizing mothers who look like they've never given birth? According to the recent AP article, 'Momshell' might be next door, it could be a new trend for moms.
To give them credit, the Hot Moms Club, who are interviewed for the story, are clear that being "hot" isn't all about looks. Social networking for moms is their plainly stated purpose. A great service, indeed. But, in their several features of celebrity moms, a reminder that these women have assistants, nannies and personal trainers at their disposal would be fantastic.
Here at POEM, we're all for moms taking good care of themselves and being healthy and fit. But as with all things mommy, it's about balance. If you want to have a perfect figure, the best hair, the trendy clothes - all things that seem to fall into this so-called "momshell" ideal - then you have to give up some things. Are we discussing what things these "hot moms" give up in order to make their appearance a top priority?
Make no mistake: In being in the business of mom support, we believe that each mother is the expert of her own life. And each mother needs to take time to be her own person OUTSIDE of being a mom. And if a mom chooses to focus on fitness and her looks - we support her in that decision.
But to say, "These days, it's all about being a momshell..." Nope. It's all about finding what works in your own life - and that is beautiful.
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